My bride and I have an ongoing arguement on what really
constitutes cheating. Is talking on line sexual with a member
of the opposite sex cheating? Is watching porn on the com-
puter cheating? Is getting a lap dance at a strip club cheating?
Is touching a member of the opposite sex cheating?
Her view is that, anything you do that you wouldn't want your
partner to see you do is cheating.
What brought this up, is that a couple we know just broke up.
The husband caught his wife with, another women. Her responce
was, "you knew I was BI when you met me and I never refuse
you sex." My bride thinks that it was ok because she was
satisfying a need her husband couldn't and it was with a women
not a man.
I think it's cheating for two reasons. #1 she was doing it behind his
back and #2, if your doing it with a man, women or the Great Dane
down the block, your doing it with someone other than your husband.
Am I wrong or am I a sexist pig like my bride says I am????